What to Bring as a Guest to Someone’s Holiday Party

Getting invited to a holiday party is always a compliment — but it often comes with one big question: What should I bring? Whether it’s a casual get-together or a more formal celebration, showing up with a thoughtful item is a simple way to say thank you to the host.

Here’s a helpful guide to choosing the perfect holiday host gift that’s appropriate, appreciated, and stress-free.

A Classic Host Gift (You Can’t Go Wrong)

If you’re unsure of the vibe, classic host gifts are always safe and welcome.

• Wine or Champagne – A bottle of red, white, or bubbly is a go-to option. If you’re not sure what they like, choose something versatile.

• Non-Alcoholic Options – Sparkling cider, craft soda, or specialty coffee or tea are great alternatives.

• Chocolates or Gourmet Treats – Think truffles, caramels, or a festive dessert item.

Pro tip: Don’t expect the host to open or serve what you bring — it’s a gift, not an obligation.

Food That Travels Well

If the host has asked guests to bring something, stick to items that are easy to transport and don’t require last-minute prep.

• Cookies, brownies, or a holiday dessert

• A charcuterie component (cheese, crackers, or nuts)

• A pre-made appetizer that can be served at room temperature

Always ask ahead of time about allergies or dietary preferences if food is involved.

Thoughtful, Non-Food Gifts

Not every host gift has to be edible. These options feel personal and festive without adding work for the host.

• Candles – Seasonal scents like pine, cinnamon, or vanilla are popular this time of year.

• Dish Towels or Napkins – Holiday-themed or neutral kitchen linens are practical and charming.

• A Small Plant or Poinsettia – Adds seasonal cheer and lasts beyond the party.

For Close Friends or Family

If the host is someone you know well, feel free to tailor the gift to their interests.

• A favorite snack or drink

• A cozy throw or mug

• A handwritten note or card

Sometimes the most meaningful gift is something small but thoughtful.

When You’re Told “Don’t Bring Anything”

Even when hosts say not to bring a thing, it’s still polite to arrive with a small gesture.

• A card with a sincere thank-you note

• A candle or ornament

• Something consumable they can enjoy later

It’s the thought that counts — not the price tag.

The Golden Rule of Holiday Host Gifts

Choose something that feels warm, simple, and considerate. Your gift should add joy, not create extra work.

At the end of the day, showing up on time, being gracious, and thanking your host goes a long way — anything you bring is just the icing on the cake.

Heading to a holiday party this season? A thoughtful host gift is the perfect way to spread a little extra cheer.